Susan Whittaker

1963 - 2008
LocationCrewe
Age45 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth28/09/1963
Date of Death29/10/2008
Visitors1,217 since 03/02/2009
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what did my mum mean to me????? everything, she was and always will be my world.
She was always so CARING it was in her nature, in 1984 she qualified as a nurse there she carried on caring always putting others first.
In august 2007 she was diagnosed with cancer which was hard for us all to come to terms with, however she never complained and said "Lets get on with it and face whats coming." She showed great strength and determination throughout her treatment. she always made the effort to look her best, for every hospital appointment she made an effort to look stunning which she always did determind not to be beaten by her illness. Even during her own treatment she always comforted others with their illness and bereavement, always giving her expert opinion on health related matters.

How did she do that is what everyone wanted to know???? well thats my mum never selfish, or jealous only kind and caring.
she is a fantastic mum loving wife, special daughter, beautiful sister, she was our best friend, a true friend and a trusted work colleague.
A listening ear she always had she could aways tell when i was sad, a smile, a hug, a tiny kiss she always knew how to turn a dreadful day into bliss.
a devoted nurse all of her life, a prefect mum, taken in her prime she deserved so much more time. Her caring hands, her tender touch these are only some of the things im going to miss so much.
My mums life was so sadly short lived and she was deeply loved and will be greatly missed by us all. she will always be in our hearts however much they ache the pain will never fade, But she would want us to find the strength to carry on and gain strength from her sudden departure.
A angel was born the day my mum died to mop away our tears while we cry , though now she is far away shes in my heart and there she will stay.
My question is why?? why did she have to go.
Mum your work here now is done, you have a special place to be now, where you will live on.
wherever i am whatever i do i see your face and miss you so.
Your big beautiful brown eyes had that cheeky sparkle and a smile came to youe face. That certain sparkle and smile that we will never be forgotten.

we will always love you never forget yo, you were always so special.
MISS YOU XXX XXX XXX XXX

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missing someone isnt how long it has been since you have seen them or the amount of time since you have talked. its about that very monent when you find yourself doing something and wishing they were right by your side.

Stephanie Whittaker (Daughter)

October 25, 2011

3 years today

its been 3 years today since we lost you and there is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts i shead tears still to this day. i love you mum and miss you so much i just want you back , to see you face, feel your touch , hold you close and never let you go. love you mum xxxxxxxxxxxx

Stephanie Whittaker (Daughter)

October 25, 2011

When i think about the old days
I want them back again.
Our house was always happy,
And full of laughter then
---
We'd all be there together
Content in every way
Then the mainstray of the family
Simply went away.
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We all of us
Do the best we can
But it will never be the same
We can't tell you how often
We all still speak your name.
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All i wish is that once more
Before i lower the light
I could only kiss her on the cheek
And i say "I LOVE YOU MUM GOODNIGHT"

Stephanie Whittaker (Daughter)

October 25, 2011

Miss you

As this time of year was so special to us both I will miss you more than I already do. Its just not right hun you not being with me and never will feel right again. Love u and miss so very very much xx

Sharon Oliver (Best Friend)

December 20, 2010

Always n forever xx

I find an old photograph
and see your smile.
As I feel your presence anew,
I am filled with warmth
and my heart remembers love.

I read an old card
sent many years ago
during a time of turmoil and confusion.
The soothing words written then
still caress my spirit
and bring me peace.

I remember who you used to be
the laughter we shared
and wonder what you have become.
Where are you now,
Where did you go,
When the body is left behind
and the spirit is released to fly?

Perhaps you are the morning bird
singing joyfully at sunrise,
or the butterfly that dances
so carelessly on the breeze
or the rainbow of colours
that brightens a stormy sky
or the fingers of afternoon mist
delicately reaching over the mountains
or the final few rays of the setting sun
lighting up the skies
edging the clouds with a magical glow.

I miss your being
but I feel your presence,
In whatever form you choose to take,
however you now choose to be.

Your spirit has become for me
a guardian angel on high
guiding, advising, and watching over me.

I remember you.
You are with me
and I am not afraid.

Sharon Oliver (Best Friend)

October 25, 2010

to the best mum in the world

hay mum just wanted 2 let u no that i am missing u so much and really wish tha u were coming on this holiday with us love u so much miss u more and more each and every single day just wish that i could hear your voice feel your touch it hurts so much 2 not have u here with me i love u so much always will, never forget u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Stephanie Whittaker (Daughter)

July 23, 2010

i miss you when something good happenes, because your the one i want to share it with, i miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well, i miss you when i laugh and cry because i no that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear i miss you all the time but i miss you most when i llay awake at night and think of all of the goos times ands memories that we shared with each other i miss you mum.

love you always x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Stephanie Whittaker (Daughter)

May 17, 2010

Westlife Lyrics xxx

I'll See You Again lyrics
Always you will be part of me
And I will forever feel your strength
When I need it most

YouÂ’re gone now, gone but not forgotten
I canÂ’t say this to your face
But I know you hear

Chorus:
IÂ’ll see you again
You never really left
I feel you walk beside me
I know IÂ’ll see you again

When IÂ’m lost, when IÂ’m missing you like crazy
I tell myself IÂ’m so blessed
To have had you in my life, my life

Chorus:
IÂ’ll see you again
You never really left
I feel you walk beside me
I know IÂ’ll see you again

When I had the time to tell you
Never thought IÂ’d live to see the day

When the words I should have said
Would come to haunt me
In my darkest hour I tell myself
IÂ’ll see you again

Chorus:
IÂ’ll see you again
You never really left
I feel you walk beside me
I know IÂ’ll see you again

Someday I'll see you again

IÂ’ll see you again
You never really left
I feel you walk beside me
I know IÂ’ll see you again


I'll see you again
IÂ’ll see you again

I miss you like crazy

YouÂ’re gone but not forgotten
IÂ’ll never forget you

Someday IÂ’ll see you again

I feel you walk beside me
Never leave you, yeah

Gone but not forgotten

I feel you by my side
No this is not goodbye x 3
[ I'll See You Again

Sharon Oliver (Best Friend)

December 24, 2009

We think of you with love today
But that is nothing new
We thought of you yesterday,
And the day before that too!
We will think of you tomorrow,
As we will our whole lives through,
For the day we fail to think of you,
Is the day we'll be with you.

Geoff Owen

October 24, 2009

My Friend xxx

A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself.
Friends aren't blind to your faults -- but they can see beyond them.
A letter from a friend can make your day.
A friend will laugh at your jokes no matter how many times you repeat
them
A friend remembers the way you were, but won't insist you stay that
way.
A friend is the only person who can make you laugh after a broken
romance.
Friends know there is no such thing as -- constructive criticism.
Friends aren't interested in your excuses they're interested in you.
When you ask a friend where he want to go to dinner... they'll choose
your favourite restaurant.
A friend knows where your panic button is, but never pushes it.
Friends can tell the truth without hurting you.
Friends take very good care of your hopes and dreams.
A friend remembers your pet peeves... your favourite colours... the
songs you like... and ignores the times you forgot to remember his/hers.
A vacation with a friend is not only more fun, but also less money.
Friends can turn arguments into laughter.
When you have doubts about yourself, call your friends, because
they'll have confidence in you.
Nothing hurts as much as hurting your friend... nothing heals as much
as being forgiven by your friend.
When a friend moves away, part of your history goes with her
Friends are the best part of ourselves.
So, Count Your age by friends not years......
Miss u babe more than words can ever say xxxxx

Sharon Oliver (Best Friend)

October 23, 2009
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